All those memories are coming back to me vividly now, and I have no excuse for my behavior anymore. I remember Kris crying to me and I remember his deep frustration whenever he would see Ruben and I together holding hands, etc. But once the breakup happened, I realized I have no justification anymore for how much I hurt Kris. I justified it at the time by telling myself that Ruben and I were meant to be together and that he was the love of my life and that it was senior year of college, so it was my last chance to start that relationship before I graduated and went down life’s journey.īut last month, Ruben broke up with me. Kris was obviously very hurt by the situation, especially since he and Ruben were still roommates. ![]() We became good friends over the course of two years, and as soon as I realized how strongly I felt about Ruben, I left Kris. This meant that I saw Ruben often, and it was incredible how strong our connection was. ![]() Since I was dating Kris, I spent a lot of time in their apartment. Kris and Ruben were friends from middle school and were roommates in college. For a few years in college, I was dating another guy, “Kris.” From the start, Kris and I were not meant to be together. ![]() The story behind our getting together is a rough one. I was very much in love with him, and I’m still not fully over it. Heartbreaker and heartbroken: My boyfriend of 2½ years, “Ruben,” recently broke up with me. Send me updates about Slate special offers.
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